YOU"
1 Peter 5:7
changed? All you could do was to try to make sense of it all. But after days, weeks, months and
now even years have went by.....You are still wondering what really happened?
After many years of marriage you thought you knew the person you were with. The one you
made all your future hopes and dreams with. Now you find that they were living a secret life,
right under your nose. What are your feelings, emotions, hurts, and dreams now?
Where do you go from here? Why did this happen to you? Why did your husband lie to you?
How do you feel right now in this space of time? What is the next step, after being
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These are some of the questions that cross-dresser wive's have when they find out about their
husbands secret life-style. Is there hope? Or is this the end of what we once thought would last
for a life-time? Can I live with my husband this way or should I have too?
We will touch on these questions within articles, poems, testimonies that we share here.
Hope you will never give up the hope that lives yet today....in such a fast-paced world.
Now as you think about your life, it seems to only be
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Know that this is not the end of the world, though it seems very close. Your life has not
been touched by something that God can not reach or heal.
The road is not smooth without bumps or rocks. But you do not have to go it alone!
I looked every where for help only to find there was very little hope out there. Until I
stumbled onto a site that gave me much hope. And then I too, thought to myself....there
needs to be more sites like this one. So this is why you have stumbled onto this web-site.
Please pray that this site will be a blessing to many struggling people out there. And a
support for wives going through the cross-dressing
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life-style.
"I will NEVER leave you nor forsake you"
Hebrews 13:5
vent your feelings that
seem so hard to deal with.
Journaling helps to get
things out that is best, at
the time not to tell others.
Keep a notebook close by
during the day, and beside
your bed at night. Many
times I have woke up in the
night, only to reach for a
pen and paper to jot down
a feeling that may even
have woke me.
Never take the guilt for
having the feelings.
Feelings are nor right or
wrong. They just are!
To hold the feelings in are
to stuff emotions that need
to come out. Journaling
again, is a good way to vent.
So remember, Notebook
close at hand day and
night.
Copyright (C) Nov. 19, 2003 Sattered N2 Pieces
As I open the bedroom door,
to see the look on your face.
The future has faded even more,
The memories are easy to trace.
Just one more hug from you,
Just a word that tells me you care.
I remember the things we use to do,
And how for me you use to always be there.
What happened to the man I married now,
Where is he gone-why did he have to go?
She has taken him from me some how,
Torn my heart into pieces you know.
She fills your heart with feelings that I cannot
give,
She holds your heart within her mist.
Shattered N2 pieces--I learn to again live,
Life goes on its true--and the desires for your
kiss.
She has you where she wants you,
She is there in the morning as you awake.
Walks through the day--and controls what you do,
This desire of hers--only knows how to take.
She has messed up your marriage--tore us apart,
She smiles as she dresses & glances in the
mirror.
As I look, I seen within her.... no heart,
Now in your life, it revolves totally around her.
When I see you walking together so very close,
How do I separate the love for you?
I miss our times together the most,
But now, I am not the one who has you.
Too see you both standing in front of the mirror,
Oh how it hurts so very deep.
I thought I married a man, but it is her,
Dear God I beg--I want my man back for keeps.
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ONE close friend that you
can trust and is open about
not taking sides. Give them
a call in the day-time.
Friends are a great way of
support.
Position yourselves, stand still and see
the salvation of the Lord, who IS with
you, O Judah and Jerusalem! Do not
fear or be dismayed; tomoorow go out
against them, for the Lord IS with you."
2 Chronicles 20:17
choice of how to live my life.
I can't choose what life will
bring me....
But I can choose whether I will
live it in victory or defeat.
Today I'm choosing
VICTORY."
From the book:
"When women walk Alone"
by Cindi McMenamin
"When Women Walk Alone"
by: Cindi McMenamin
~~~
"Boundaries"
by: Dr Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
~~~
"Love Must Be Tough"
by James C Dobson
~~~
"The Path Of Loneliness"
by Elisabth Elliot
~~~
"Healing Damaged Emotions"
By David Seamands
~~~
"Help Me, I'm Depressed"
by Joyce Meyer
~~~
"Woman Who Love To Much"
by Robin Norwood
~~~
"Love & Respect"
by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
~~~
"The Language Of Letting Go"
Melody Beattle
(Awesome Devotional)
Divorce Recovery
by: Bob Burns & Tom Whiteman
Depression
by: Les Carter
Anger
by: Les Carter
Bibles:
NIV Encouragement Bible
Joni Eareckson Tada
(The Answer For Those Who Hurt)
NKJV Soul Care Bible
Tim Clinton
(Notes from Christian Counselors)
Coping
Get-N-better
Forgiving
Growing
EVERYDAY!
Home....There are only walls here now. The devestation has destroyed what you
once thought to be.
Alone....You are fighting with your emptiness inside. There is new meaning of
"alone".
Tempted....You fight with the temptations of the outside world. So much has
been taken from you.
Time....Stands still. It seems like the days have many more hours then before.
Energy....everything feels zapped out of you. Its hard to think about tomorrow.
Rest....You find yourself not being able to sleep. Or you find yourself, thats all
you want to do.
Exit....You have thought of suicide. Things will never be the same you feel.
Depression....You cannot seem to get the energy back. And you do not want to
go anywhere.
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Precious....You are very precious in the sight of Jesus.
Inside....Let Jesus fill you up with His love and peace.
Everyday....Look to Jesus first thing when you get out of bed.
Christ....Is the healer and answer to ALL things.
Everything....Must be turned over to Jesus and let Him work things out.
Safe....Is where we can trust and relax. That is only in Jesus' arms of love.
03/08/2008
poems for the poem
page.
Venting is a good
way of healing.
